Showing posts with label General Ramblings. Show all posts
Showing posts with label General Ramblings. Show all posts
Thursday, March 13, 2014
War Against Selfie!
Petaling Jaya & Georgetown Penang listed in the World's Top 10 'Selfiest' Cities
Whoa.
Should I be proud since I am a PJ girl? Or should I be embarrassed with the number of narcissistic, self-obsessed people we have in PJ?!
The survey conducted by Times Magazine was based in images downloaded via Instagram API, for pictures tagged #selfie. Although not that pretty accurate but nevertheless I was shocked to learn that not only Malaysia has TWO cities listed in top 10, but also the fact that PJ ranked 3rd after New York City! Oh boy aren't we a bunch of super self-absorb human?!
Frankly, I DO have something against 'selfie' or self-taken-picture-of-oneself. For one, I hate it when I was enjoying my morning coffee checking our my newsfeed and I accidentally scroll over a konon cun selfie that focusses on the face, yes, THE FACE. And BAM! a ginormous eyes, nose and mouth comes face to face with you that made you almost jumped out of your skin and knock off your coffee! It is scary as hell I tell you! Not cool okay.
In all honesty, no one cares how good/bad you look like. WE DON'T CARE. Especially in the morning. Puh-leaseeeee! Send it to your mom or your boyfriend whatever but please safe all of us from the torture of an almost-heart-attack having to see you closed up like that. We do not want to know where your zits are and neither do we want to study your face real close. God!
However, we can understand and tolerate the once-in-a-while selfie because deep down inside everybody crave for attention and your 2-minute fame but NOT the Everyday, Every Hour, Every Minute selfie okay?! Ridiculous. I tell ya', if we are in the 1800 era, you would definitely be locked up in a cuckoo house for having that much picture of yourself in such a short period of time. Crazinesss I tell you.
You know what's worst?
These loons even revisit their selfie picture just to check the number of likes or double tapped they received from their 'friends' & 'fans'. And tomorrow, the same story all over again. *Sigh*
Bring me a picture of a cat anytime but NEVER a SELFIE of some obnoxious, pouty lips girl who thinks she is some modern day Mona Lisa that is a compulsory for people to admire her work of art.
Shoot me somebody, shoot me quick!
Sunday, March 9, 2014
What Happened to our Malaysian Graduates?!
I recently placed an advertisement for a Sale Assistant vacancy in my shop, #tigerlilybags in Shah Alam.
It goes like this...
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Pembantu Jualan di Butik Bag (Full Time)
Syarat-syarat:- Perempuan, warganegara Malaysia
18-26 tahun
SPM level ke atas
Mempunyai kenderaan sendiri
Sila berikan Nama, Umur & Asal dari mana ke:-
013-xxxxxxx sms/whatsapp sahaja
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Since this is one of those fruitful months when you can easily get staff, the minute the advert was up my phone started buzzing and beeping. Some called me up, totally ignoring my strict instruction of "SMS or Whatsapp only!". I don't know why but people now days jump to conclusion in a jiffy without ACTUALLY READING the instructions correctly. This irked me like nobody's business. For me, if simple instruction such as this you failed to take note and follow, what would happen if you DO work for me, it would be a disaster I tell you!
Very, very NOT cool. -__-
Besides that, some candidates even ignored the fact that I specifically highlighted the age, gender requirements and that they should have their own mode of transportation. I know, I know, this is not good recruitment practice but in my defense, this is for their own good & I am not the only employer guilty of doing so ;) Before you pester the small fish, why don't you straighten up the big guys first, no?
I started calling them up for interview session and surprise, surprise...out of let say 5 candidates who confirmed their interview appointment, only half showed up. Yes, 50% only. Sad eh? This is how un-professional our candidates are but hey, who am I to complain. Somehow, these silly candidates find it morally okay to waste people's time like that. Don't even get me started on 'Amanah'.
To know if you're going to be hired by me is easy; if the interview session is lengthy & 'extensive' means I am interested in hiring you. And if it was quick & brief means that I'm not interested. A little tip for future interviewees, please DO 'sell' yourself during the session. It is your only ticket to get a call for the second session. Keep it interesting but not obnoxious.
So, while conducting the interviews I noticed the overwhelming number of degree graduates AND MASTER graduates applying for the post. YES, a measly Shop Assistant post! And they are fighting for it! Good gracious, how bad is the recession & inflation in Malaysia?!
When asked why the decided to pursue their MBAs, MBEs, or Master in some courses, the common answer I received was; 'We couldn't get a decent job so we continued studying'. Whoa, this is sad. When I asked them why don't they grab any job first than slowly apply for a more suitable job later, their simple answer to that is that the pay was NOT good enough for them. And I am baffled. I was itching to say that Beggers can't be choosy but refrained myself from doing so cause;- a) they might NOT get me T__T b) it is kind of mean.
After probing further into their personal life, I finally concluded the common causes why these graduates are unemployed:-
1) They simply picked/was forced to choose a course that I would call it 'Course Lelong' or the neither-here-nor-there courses. Often time its a combination of 2 courses that doesn't make sense. E.g.: Science Management. So, are you studying science or management??? And what do you intend to be once you graduated managing scientist? No offense but you have to admit that it is pretty vague.
2) They took a course they didn't like and got stuck with it. They have no intention to work within the field/industry they studied in and it doesn't help that the course was not a 'flexible' course that allows them to go to different paths. However, there are cases of people who did have a career in a totally different industry yet succeeded. Take Chef Wan for example, an accountant turned Chef.
3) Demotivated, Lack of Guidance from family. Most of the candidates I have interviewed not only that they do NOT have a goal in life but to make it worst, they do NOT even have the support and guidance. And let's face it, Malaysian students are so used to being spoon-fed that eventually they became too-relying and could not stand & think independently. Yes, we were colonised once, boo-hoo but get over it and start standing on your own two feet for heaven's sake!
4) Carefree,Delusional Idealistic Choosy. Unfortunately, most of our gradutates were painted a pretty picture of how working life should look and feel like. Thus, they seek such fantasy career path and to worsen it the local Malay dramas doesn't help with this either. They assume that the perfect job means sitting behind a great oak desk, doing some paper work, happily punching their keyboards and punch out at 5pm! So when they saw what is in it for them in real life, not so sugary and fun; they chickened out.
5) Wants to straight away jump into starting their own business/ wants to be their own boss. Honey, experience and networking doesn't come from the books. You need to pay your dues first, earn it the hard way. Yes, there are people who succeeded in doing so but I tell you frankly it will take true grit to rise above the others.
There, I said it. I might hurt some people's feeling for this but for me this needs to be addressed. Enough is enough. Stop cultivating delusional robots. Stop spoon-feeding them with picture perfect working life that they get a shocked when faced with the reality of life. Life is no pie.
On a lighter note, I did take in a few Master graduates as my Shop Assistant partially because I pitied them but also because they are willing to learn and demonstrated how much they want the job. Kasihan, working so hard for a Master and can't even use it to apply for work.
However, I did warned them, and I warned them hard...that they are not going to ROT here forever. I am a big believer in having a purpose in life, so I promised to guide them and share my experience with them as much as I can but they need get back on track soonest possible and get a proper job pronto! One the reflects their effort & qualification.
It saddens me how tragic our graduates have become today. I hope my task, albeit small will trigger something in them. In sha Allah...
So do you belong in any of the above category?
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Pembantu Jualan di Butik Bag (Full Time)
Syarat-syarat:- Perempuan, warganegara Malaysia
18-26 tahun
SPM level ke atas
Mempunyai kenderaan sendiri
Sila berikan Nama, Umur & Asal dari mana ke:-
013-xxxxxxx sms/whatsapp sahaja
-----
Since this is one of those fruitful months when you can easily get staff, the minute the advert was up my phone started buzzing and beeping. Some called me up, totally ignoring my strict instruction of "SMS or Whatsapp only!". I don't know why but people now days jump to conclusion in a jiffy without ACTUALLY READING the instructions correctly. This irked me like nobody's business. For me, if simple instruction such as this you failed to take note and follow, what would happen if you DO work for me, it would be a disaster I tell you!
Very, very NOT cool. -__-
Besides that, some candidates even ignored the fact that I specifically highlighted the age, gender requirements and that they should have their own mode of transportation. I know, I know, this is not good recruitment practice but in my defense, this is for their own good & I am not the only employer guilty of doing so ;) Before you pester the small fish, why don't you straighten up the big guys first, no?
I started calling them up for interview session and surprise, surprise...out of let say 5 candidates who confirmed their interview appointment, only half showed up. Yes, 50% only. Sad eh? This is how un-professional our candidates are but hey, who am I to complain. Somehow, these silly candidates find it morally okay to waste people's time like that. Don't even get me started on 'Amanah'.
To know if you're going to be hired by me is easy; if the interview session is lengthy & 'extensive' means I am interested in hiring you. And if it was quick & brief means that I'm not interested. A little tip for future interviewees, please DO 'sell' yourself during the session. It is your only ticket to get a call for the second session. Keep it interesting but not obnoxious.
So, while conducting the interviews I noticed the overwhelming number of degree graduates AND MASTER graduates applying for the post. YES, a measly Shop Assistant post! And they are fighting for it! Good gracious, how bad is the recession & inflation in Malaysia?!
When asked why the decided to pursue their MBAs, MBEs, or Master in some courses, the common answer I received was; 'We couldn't get a decent job so we continued studying'. Whoa, this is sad. When I asked them why don't they grab any job first than slowly apply for a more suitable job later, their simple answer to that is that the pay was NOT good enough for them. And I am baffled. I was itching to say that Beggers can't be choosy but refrained myself from doing so cause;- a) they might NOT get me T__T b) it is kind of mean.
After probing further into their personal life, I finally concluded the common causes why these graduates are unemployed:-
1) They simply picked/was forced to choose a course that I would call it 'Course Lelong' or the neither-here-nor-there courses. Often time its a combination of 2 courses that doesn't make sense. E.g.: Science Management. So, are you studying science or management??? And what do you intend to be once you graduated managing scientist? No offense but you have to admit that it is pretty vague.
2) They took a course they didn't like and got stuck with it. They have no intention to work within the field/industry they studied in and it doesn't help that the course was not a 'flexible' course that allows them to go to different paths. However, there are cases of people who did have a career in a totally different industry yet succeeded. Take Chef Wan for example, an accountant turned Chef.
3) Demotivated, Lack of Guidance from family. Most of the candidates I have interviewed not only that they do NOT have a goal in life but to make it worst, they do NOT even have the support and guidance. And let's face it, Malaysian students are so used to being spoon-fed that eventually they became too-relying and could not stand & think independently. Yes, we were colonised once, boo-hoo but get over it and start standing on your own two feet for heaven's sake!
4) Carefree,
5) Wants to straight away jump into starting their own business/ wants to be their own boss. Honey, experience and networking doesn't come from the books. You need to pay your dues first, earn it the hard way. Yes, there are people who succeeded in doing so but I tell you frankly it will take true grit to rise above the others.
There, I said it. I might hurt some people's feeling for this but for me this needs to be addressed. Enough is enough. Stop cultivating delusional robots. Stop spoon-feeding them with picture perfect working life that they get a shocked when faced with the reality of life. Life is no pie.
On a lighter note, I did take in a few Master graduates as my Shop Assistant partially because I pitied them but also because they are willing to learn and demonstrated how much they want the job. Kasihan, working so hard for a Master and can't even use it to apply for work.
However, I did warned them, and I warned them hard...that they are not going to ROT here forever. I am a big believer in having a purpose in life, so I promised to guide them and share my experience with them as much as I can but they need get back on track soonest possible and get a proper job pronto! One the reflects their effort & qualification.
It saddens me how tragic our graduates have become today. I hope my task, albeit small will trigger something in them. In sha Allah...
So do you belong in any of the above category?
Thursday, May 16, 2013
Leap of Faith
Assalamualaikum & hello...
I'd like to start my post by saying CONGRATULATIONS to my good friend, a new Mum; for giving birth to a beautiful baby last night!
Bittersweet memories flooded me as soon as I saw her baby's picture in Instagram. Woww...I'm almost 30 years old, a lot have changed with me & friends around me, my environment. And I thought of all the crazy shite things I've done in my past. All the mistakes & detours I took when I was young. And I said..."Alhamdulillah...I am where I want to be now".
Taking the plunge to full time entrepreneur in 2012 was a leap of faith indeed. I doubted myself. Questions run through me; the what ifs and what nots. My husband consoled me and with his deep believe & confidence in me, I resigned.
Hence TIGER LILY Bags & Accessories was established. I started my baby steps into the business world and it was Ramadhan of 2012. And Alhamdulillah we did quite well. Rezeki bulan Ramadhan they say.
So okay, I must admit that I hid this fact for sometime from some family members but purely out of my respect to their concerns on the uncertainties of a business-life and I do not want them to worry about me.
Ever since then, life was a roller-coaster. And I love roller-coasters. Everyday I am faced with challenges from the brutal ups & downs of the Retail world, problems from staff (the usual culprit I tell you!), planning & strategising my next step bla bla bla. Yet I am happy & content.
It is true that you do get a bit tired from all the thinking & working you'd have to do managing your business, but like the video I watched last night by Ustaz Azhar Idrus; If you are passionate about what you do, your excitement will overrule your tiredness. You don't think about being tired cause you are HAPPY and EXCITED doing it! Brilliant~!
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Malaysia recently went through our 13th General Elections and there was a small war happening at the usual places, cyberspace (i.e. facebook, twitter), mamak shop, at home...I too may have been a bit vocal on the eve of the balloting day. Can't helped it, I love my country & people too much.
Post-election fever, I saw how divided we were. Especially here in Shah Alam. It saddens me how easily a bunch of politicians toy with our mind. Lest we forget, politicians will ALWAYS be politicians. Promises are just tickets to win your votes.
Therefore, I plan to do my part and help my people to look at the bigger picture. Especially the younger generation, Gen Y.
From now on, whenever I conduct interview session to employ new staff (and I only employ Malaysians) I'll be sure to ask what their ambitions are. Why? So I know whether they have a goal in life and if they do, my husband & I will help nurture them by sharing all the knowledge, experience & know hows we've gained over the years.
InsyaAllah (God's willing) this will help guide them into becoming a successful person one day. It is the least I can do for my nation.
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